Many of us go into medicine because we are helpers by nature. We care about people and want to provide help to those in distress. This is a noble aim. However, over-functioning physicians can discourage collaboration and prevent patients from expressing autonomy, and voicing and achieving their health goals.1
Overly identifying as fixer-helper-rescuer
What can happen over time, however, is that we begin to overly identify with the “fixer/helper/rescuer” role, and that role begins to cross over into other areas of our life. We unconsciously “need to be needed.” This form of over-functioning can occur in any type of relationship: family, work, friendship, romantic/intimate, peer, or community.
Signs and symptoms of over-functioning
It is important to know what over-functioning and people pleasing looks like in our daily lives. We can then effectively identify if we are operating in these patterns and take steps to change.
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